Rohan Parrant Method

Healing from Complex Trauma: Insights with Adela Holmes — Part Two

Rohan Parrant Season 1 Episode 22

In this deeply insightful episode of the Rohan Parrant Method, I’m joined again by Adela Holmes, a therapeutic care expert specializing in supporting traumatized children and families. Together, we explore the ongoing journey of healing from complex and developmental trauma, focusing on practical strategies that empower listeners to break free from the lasting effects of adverse childhood experiences.

Adela shares her extensive knowledge on how trauma impacts the brain and emphasizes the crucial role safe, nurturing environments play in emotional regulation and recovery. We discuss various therapeutic approaches, including cognitive-behavioral therapy, and dive into the importance of co-regulation in parenting. The conversation also touches on sensitive topics like shame, attachment, trust-building, and how trauma reshapes internal belief systems.

Through this episode, we offer hope and encouragement, affirming that healing is always possible, no matter how deep the wounds, and highlight the power of compassionate support in fostering growth.

Key Takeaways:

  • Safe, supportive environments are essential for healing trauma and regulating emotions.
  • Shame deeply affects personal development and is often linked to neglect and trauma.
  • Trauma-informed therapy plays a vital role in rebuilding a sense of safety and emotional balance.
  • Recognizing and breaking harmful relational patterns opens the door to healthier connections.
  • Healing the neurobiological impact of trauma is achievable, reshaping beliefs and fostering resilience.

About Rohan

Rohan Parrant is a counsellor, coach, speaker and wellbeing strategist dedicated to helping individuals and leaders live, perform and lead without burning out. With over two decades of experience across construction, trades, corporate, education and youth services, he brings a grounded, no-BS approach to personal development, mental health and leadership.

On The Rohan Parrant Method podcast, Rohan dives into honest, practical conversations with everyday people, thought leaders and high performers to explore what it really means to grow, heal and lead well—especially under pressure. From burnout and mindset to trauma, resilience and self-awareness, this is the show for people who want to go deeper, feel stronger, and show up better in all areas of life.

With a background that bridges real-world grit and emotional depth, Rohan knows what it takes to rise after setbacks, push past mental barriers, and keep showing up with integrity. His episodes are packed with raw insights, grounded tools and powerful stories that challenge the status quo and call you to step into something greater.

Whether you're rebuilding, evolving or just curious, Rohan’s method is real, relatable and always rooted in lived experience.

Connect with Rohan:
Website: rohanparrant.com

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